creating results
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Notes from this Episode:

The Problem

  • For most of our life, we believe that our results are completely within our control.  We think our actions create our results.
  • But when it comes to our marriage, our children’s behavior, or the state of cleanliness of our home, we think it’s out of our control – we detach from our results.  These results are just the facts of life, and we just can’t change the way we are.

The Solution

  • The truth is, the results we have in our life come from what we believe, our thoughts.
  • Now we can feel some control in the results we create!

Changing our Thoughts Regarding the Will of our Children

  • If you are committed to the “notion” that your children are just strong-willed, then you’ll never give yourself the space or the opportunity to challenge that you’ve created that result.
  • Your children are undisciplined and don’t obey because you don’t think you have any control over them and you give up.
  • Almost everyone thinks their children are strong-willed, but why is it, then, that there are children who are strong-willed but are respectful and disciplined?
  • You are doing your children a disservice by letting them just “be strong-willed”
  • As parents, our will needs to be the guiding force, not theirs.
  • If you’re not willing to think outside the box and figure out how you can assist your child, then you’re never going to have the results you want.
  • Remember, we create the results we want by what we think!

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  • Twice a month, the workshop is followed by an opportunity to receive coaching in front of the group.
    • This portion is completely optional, but it provides you the opportunity to be coached to the results you want on a specific topic of your choice, while giving the rest of the members a chance to watch the coaching and then apply what they heard to their own situations.
    • We all share very similar issues and concerns!
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